Get tested.

My new standards: no sex before monogamy, no sex with people who haven't been tested recently.

Getting tested was really easy. They were up there anyway for a pap- one extra swab tests for gonorrhea and chlamydia. The HIV antibody test was a quick blood test (why they didn't use the oral test, I don't know.) I plan to frame my results of cleanliness above my bed and demand a passport for passage before entry from others. Not having insurance isn't a good enough excuse. Go to Planned Parenthood and if I want to sleep with you bad enough I'll just pay the $30 sliding scale (whatever it is these days.)